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Title: Book discussion thread.
Post by: Angel Eyes on September 16, 2015, 02:25:59 PM
Since the other thread has 6 pages already I thought it'd be good to have a separate thread talking about the contents of the book. Like, what Jewel says about her life and the people in it, the extra deluxe stuff, what you generally like or dislike about the book etc. I know a lot of us are still waiting to receive our copy in the mail so there might not be a lot of discussion yet, but there will be eventually. Hopefully. :lol:
Title: Re: Book discussion thread.
Post by: Jessica on September 16, 2015, 02:28:05 PM
Since the other thread has 6 pages already I thought it'd be good to have a separate thread talking about the contents of the book.

I agree! 

I'll join in the discussion by Sept 25th at least when I go to the signing - I should finally get a copy then! :lolsad:
Title: Re: Book discussion thread.
Post by: Randy on September 17, 2015, 10:58:19 AM
Just pulled it out of the mailbox and I've got to go to work. First thing I saw was awesome, though:
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The inner covers, front and back, are wallpapered with song lyrics!
Title: Re: Book discussion thread.
Post by: ShawnShamrock on September 17, 2015, 11:31:48 AM
I want details.. I am getting the book possibly tomorrow if I end up making the trip to barnes and noble. Until that moment I want lots of spoilers!!
Title: Re: Book discussion thread.
Post by: Donna Sue on September 17, 2015, 02:16:32 PM
Just pulled it out of the mailbox and I've got to go to work. First thing I saw was awesome, though:
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The inner covers, front and back, are wallpapered with song lyrics!


Nice!!!!!! :banana:
Title: Re: Book discussion thread.
Post by: Randy on September 17, 2015, 09:03:09 PM
At this time I feel it's necessary to implore folks NOT to skip ahead to the part where Jewel blows Nedra up.

I skipped right to the pictures, though. I'm a child.  ::2
Title: Re: Book discussion thread.
Post by: Donna Sue on September 18, 2015, 03:06:13 AM

I skipped right to the pictures, though. I'm a child.  ::2

I always do the same thing with books... I have little patience with such things.  :lol:
Title: Re: Book discussion thread.
Post by: Randy on September 18, 2015, 07:02:44 AM
I just finished chapter 8.

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The story of little Jewel and Atz Lee trying (and failing) to fight quietly and waking hungover Atz, and what he did, was harrowing. Wow. Plus, you'd think Hawaii was paradise but she describes a pretty horrible time. Catkin's husband comes off like a lunatic but I suspect Jewel forgot or left out some details here. I'd imagine she was a pain in the ass then.

Her comment about being unable to leave Hawaii until she got her Alaskan Oil Dividend surprised me, although it shouldn't have. I'd forgotten that all state residents get that.
Title: Re: Book discussion thread.
Post by: Nobody on September 18, 2015, 07:35:28 AM
I just finished chapter 8.

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The story of little Jewel and Atz Lee trying (and failing) to fight quietly and waking hungover Atz, and what he did, was harrowing. Wow. Plus, you'd think Hawaii was paradise but she describes a pretty horrible time. Catkin's husband comes off like a lunatic but I suspect Jewel forgot or left out some details here. I'd imagine she was a pain in the ass then.

Her comment about being unable to leave Hawaii until she got her Alaskan Oil Dividend surprised me, although it shouldn't have. I'd forgotten that all state residents get that.


I left off right around the same point last night and admit that I was in tears a few times.  I cannot suggest the audiobook enough.  Never had one before, but it's a must.  You'll hear every crack in her voice, tear ad lump in her throat before a "new take."  I never expected to be quite this moved or emotional about it all.
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Going through my own issues with family and loss, this is all so raw.  It makes sense and fills in a lot of the gaps.  She is handlin the Nedra side of it very well.  Classy, but not glossed over.  I don't think any of us realized how much abuse, she actually endured - both physical ad emotional. 
Title: Re: Book discussion thread.
Post by: Nobody on September 18, 2015, 07:37:28 AM
 :ragecomp:
Please forgive the typos.  This new keyboard is oing to kill me, or fly.  I do not recommend the new HP Envy laptops -- FYI.
Title: Re: Book discussion thread.
Post by: Jessica on September 18, 2015, 07:42:11 AM
I do, however, recomment HP ProBooks - the keyboard is the best in the industry. :cool:
Title: Re: Book discussion thread.
Post by: Nobody on September 18, 2015, 07:46:53 AM
I normally LOVE HP.  I had this thing custom built and blah, blah, blah.  The fingerprint reader, is right where you wouldrest your left palm to type.  So I'm constantly turning it on becausse I haven't figured out how to disable it yet. :grandma:
Title: Re: Book discussion thread.
Post by: Randy on September 18, 2015, 07:49:49 AM
I cannot suggest the audiobook enough.  Never had one before, but it's a must.  You'll hear every crack in her voice, tear ad lump in her throat before a "new take."  I never expected to be quite this moved or emotional about it all.
Oh, I can tell right now that's gonna hit me right in the chest when I hear it. I didn't get the download though, I have it coming on (multiple, evidently) CDs.

 :grandpa:
Title: Re: Book discussion thread.
Post by: Nobody on September 18, 2015, 08:25:58 AM
I cannot suggest the audiobook enough.  Never had one before, but it's a must.  You'll hear every crack in her voice, tear ad lump in her throat before a "new take."  I never expected to be quite this moved or emotional about it all.
Oh, I can tell right now that's gonna hit me right in the chest when I hear it. I didn't get the download though, I have it coming on (multiple, evidently) CDs.

 :grandpa:
:grandma:
Yeah, it is.  I was up til 3am, with some purple string lights, my iPod, and a box of tissues.  I'm trying to figure out how to et the deluxe content  :cry:
Title: Re: Book discussion thread.
Post by: Echo on September 18, 2015, 08:54:49 AM
I think im on chapter 28 and i am beyond amazed.. cant wait to discuss
Title: Re: Book discussion thread.
Post by: cillapgp on September 18, 2015, 09:20:51 AM
I managed to make it thru the book only tearing up, no actual tears flowed. But I just finished it... and I was sobbing at the end. Just. Ugh.  :blueguitar:

I couldn't pace myself. I had to gobble it all up. I think I'll re-read it with the audio book.
Title: Re: Book discussion thread.
Post by: Jessica on September 18, 2015, 09:57:25 AM
Ah, you guys are making this sound sooooo good ... I'm stoked!  :fun:


How would you say this book compares to Chasing Down the Dawn - as good, better or worse?
Title: Re: Book discussion thread.
Post by: Donna Sue on September 18, 2015, 10:10:07 AM
I'm soo trying not to read the spoilers!! You guys are killing me!  :tongue2:

I went to our local bookstore today at lunch and they have exactly ONE copy of NB. I must admit I picked it up and looked at the pictures.. nothing more!  I thought of buying it since who knows when my copy will arrive, but it's $35 Canadian. Seems a bit steep for something that's supposedly on its way already.

Seriously considering buying the audio as well though. Then I can have Jewel read to me whenever I want.   :wub:
Title: Re: Book discussion thread.
Post by: Randy on September 18, 2015, 10:26:43 AM
Ah, you guys are making this sound sooooo good ... I'm stoked!  :fun:


How would you say this book compares to Chasing Down the Dawn - as good, better or worse?
My impression of the first few chapters is, much better. I can kind of see the arc of where the story's going, while CDTD was (intentionally) sort of scattershot. Tons of details I never knew, too! Like:
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Tom Bodett wrote a $5000 check to complete her fundraiser for Interlochen.
Title: Re: Book discussion thread.
Post by: Jessica on September 18, 2015, 01:23:08 PM
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my dad was obsessed with Irish Spring, too.  When I met my mister, he was that using nasty soap, too.  What is with men and that vile bar of filth? :lol:
Title: Re: Book discussion thread.
Post by: Mr. Joe on September 18, 2015, 01:38:19 PM
Seriously considering buying the audio as well though. Then I can have Jewel read to me whenever I want.   :wub:

My plan also, I want Jewel to read to me whenever I want.  :jewelsmilie: :wub:
Title: Re: Book discussion thread.
Post by: cillapgp on September 18, 2015, 01:39:34 PM
EDA Confession: I've never read CDTD  :wtf: :blush: :blush: :oops:
Title: Re: Book discussion thread.
Post by: Javo on September 18, 2015, 01:43:01 PM
EDA Confession: I've never read CDTD  :wtf: :blush: :blush: :oops:

To reassure you: I only read a few chapters, And I have it on cd as well. I never made it so far. I have "A life uncommon" on dvd for several years now, still have to see it. I was just never in the mood. always something else I wanted to read more or wanted to watch instead.  :hide:
Title: Re: Book discussion thread.
Post by: Jessica on September 18, 2015, 02:09:05 PM
Same here, John and Cilla.  I've never been able to stomach it. 

The bit I've read of CDTD didn't really capture my attention. :hide:
Title: Re: Book discussion thread.
Post by: Angel Eyes on September 18, 2015, 02:20:40 PM
Chasing Down the Dawn is actually a pretty easy read. I wouldn't say it's better or worse than Never Broken so far, just different. CDTD is really just a bunch of short stories about her life before and after fame, along with some poems and random little tidbits thrown in, and some of her drawings. I've actually only read through it all from start to finish once, and the rest I just kinda flip through random pages and read different excerpts here and there. There's actually one about her mom when she was five that might break your heart to read it now. :(
Title: Re: Book discussion thread.
Post by: Nobody on September 18, 2015, 02:25:16 PM
I only read CDTD, about a month ago.  Took about 90 minutes.   :barf:
Title: Re: Book discussion thread.
Post by: Angel Eyes on September 18, 2015, 02:28:37 PM
Tons of details I never knew, too! Like:
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Tom Bodett wrote a $5000 check to complete her fundraiser for Interlochen.

Yeah, I was surprised by that, too! This is one thing I like about the book so far, we hear more details that we've never heard before. I'm starting chapter 11 now and can't wait to read/hear more.
Title: Re: Book discussion thread.
Post by: Nobody on September 18, 2015, 03:00:43 PM
I have to say, I never thought that I would like an audio book.  First one ever and I can't believe how much it adds to the book.  I guess, if you have a "thing" for Jewel's voice in song, hearing her tell her story invests you in it all the more.  I have to admit, I was shocked at how much it drew me in.  It is what she wanted.  It's visceral.
Title: Re: Book discussion thread.
Post by: Echo on September 18, 2015, 03:06:45 PM
I feel like CDTD as good as parts are this book makes me actually feel something and reflect more and think. I like to read, but lately the two books that have inspired me are of course this one and Felicia Day's new book
Title: Re: Book discussion thread.
Post by: Randy on September 18, 2015, 08:02:54 PM
I have to say, I never thought that I would like an audio book.  First one ever and I can't believe how much it adds to the book.  I guess, if you have a "thing" for Jewel's voice in song, hearing her tell her story invests you in it all the more.  I have to admit, I was shocked at how much it drew me in.  It is what she wanted.  It's visceral.
I love her speaking voice as much as her singing voice, so this is right in my wheelhouse.
Title: Re: Book discussion thread.
Post by: Angel Eyes on September 18, 2015, 09:03:07 PM
Oh shit, I just got to the part about Nedra taking over Jewel's finances and management and starting Soul City Cafe etc.

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Like, I had an inkling that SSC wasn't really Jewel's idea, but the whole thing was actually pretty cool and you couldn't possibly think it was a bad idea. And I guess it wasn't if the money was managed well enough, but if that isn't then the whole thing would go to shit. And it eventually did. It really kinda sucks because there were some good artists you could discover, like Jason Mraz, and I still have Rebeka Reed's album. Gah, how depressing.
Title: Re: Book discussion thread.
Post by: Angel Eyes on September 18, 2015, 10:42:09 PM
The almighty "Z". Dang.
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I thought the whole thing was blown up in what little I read in articles or whatever, and that Jewel's "spirituality" was private just because she wanted to be private. But, like, the extent of the whole bizarre thing? Is truly bizarre. If people can supposedly get cancer so easily then the whole world would be fucked.



Also, these lyrics from Love Is a Garden make a lot more sense now. For those who don't know, Jewel and Ty broke up for a couple of months in 2003:

And our moms all squeeze like weeds, they get in the way
Now you're gone and I'm here,
I'm missing you dear,
We took a break, what a mistake
What we needed to do was just make some room for me and you.
Title: Re: Book discussion thread.
Post by: Angel Eyes on September 18, 2015, 11:22:55 PM
And now I'm crying. I honestly didn't think I would. :( Man, screw Nedra. To think that everything came to a head while recording and promoting 0304 is just... ugh. And no one was really aware of the extent of the whole thing. It's all so weird, man.
Title: Re: Book discussion thread.
Post by: Sklara on September 19, 2015, 02:31:09 AM
I had to returnd the ebook but I managed to read a few chapters and found the ones with all the Nedra thing. I never though it was so bad. Those people that surraunded her...it just sick and terrible! Ty was her light and I understand now why she loved him so much and still does.

The fact that she lived all those years not knowing how much money she had, leaving everything to her mom and other people is just incredible. I would expect her to be more independent in that domain of her life, but then again she got cought in the Wonderland magic. GAIW really makes sense now. I think I'm learning to read Jewel lyrics better now... some lyrics are pretty explicit at this point.

Also the fisrts chapters where she talks about her childhood is a lot like CDTD, but it fills some gaps and there are a few new stories too.

I did notices in the photo section. There are pics from the Alaska trip and they are dated 2008, but it was 2009 acctually. I tweeted it to her but I guess no one really cares but me  :confused: :blush:

Cant wait for my physical copy so I can finish it! :)
Title: Re: Book discussion thread.
Post by: ShawnShamrock on September 19, 2015, 07:18:58 AM
Am I the only one distracted by Jewel's reading voice. There is something odd about it and I don't really mean that in a negative way. Does that have something to do with her dyslexia? I ask as like a serious question? Does anyone else know what I mean?
Title: Re: Book discussion thread.
Post by: Nobody on September 19, 2015, 08:37:39 AM
Am I the only one distracted by Jewel's reading voice. There is something odd about it and I don't really mean that in a negative way. Does that have something to do with her dyslexia? I ask as like a serious question? Does anyone else know what I mean?

When I first popped it on, I was surprised at how fast she seemed to be talking.  Then I remembered, she's reading - it's different.  I never listened to an audio book before.  I think you're noticing the diffference between her reading and speaking (which is how we're used to hearing her - like in an interview) and her voice changes and sounds fresher when she begins a "new take" where before, it had been a little rougher.  She did this over a course of 3 days and the magic of editng makes it one piece - I think you're just hearng that type of stuff. 

I have to say, I never thought that I would like an audio book.  First one ever and I can't believe how much it adds to the book.  I guess, if you have a "thing" for Jewel's voice in song, hearing her tell her story invests you in it all the more.  I have to admit, I was shocked at how much it drew me in.  It is what she wanted.  It's visceral.
I love her speaking voice as much as her singing voice, so this is right in my wheelhouse.

I concur.  This is up my alley too and why I never minded some of the music a lot of people don't like.  I can listen to her sing or read anything and be transported.  It's kinda ephemeral.  I'm gonna stop here, because I am the new age fruit cake. :blush:
Title: Re: Book discussion thread.
Post by: Mr. Joe on September 19, 2015, 03:36:04 PM

I concur.  This is up my alley too and why I never minded some of the music a lot of people don't like.  I can listen to her sing or read anything and be transported.  It's kinda ephemeral.  I'm gonna stop here, because I am the new age fruit cake. :blush:

My feelings as well, Jewel is an angel.  :jewelsmilie: :angel:

I am the new age fruit cake. :blush:  :rofl2:
Title: Re: Book discussion thread.
Post by: Angel Eyes on September 20, 2015, 12:11:06 PM
I finally finished the audio book. I'm gonna have to actually read the book this time to really let things sink in and critic it. I don't know if it was just me, but it kinda seemed as though some topics just sorta stopped and she went on to something else. It was kinda jarring and hard to get used to. Maybe the book layout makes that make sense? Hopefully. :)


But overall I really like what she had to say toward the end, and about the difference between male and female ego when they get married and have kids. I obviously can't relate on a personal level, but she described my dad to a T. The problem is, he's never grown out of that "king" mindset. At 64 I don't think he ever will, but that's a whole different topic. :)
Title: Re: Book discussion thread.
Post by: Lily on September 21, 2015, 02:24:04 AM
Yo! I'm back. How are you?  :flower:

I had given up on Jewel, but some months ago, after chatting with Emilie (who else?!) I decided to give her new album a chance. And I was glad: I love it.
Then I got her book on my Kindle - I read half of it and I'm really enjoying it. It's like the adult version of CDTD, where things are finally explained.
Title: Re: Book discussion thread.
Post by: Jessica on September 21, 2015, 06:23:31 AM
Hi, Lily - welcome back! Great to see you around!!  :flower:

Title: Re: Book discussion thread.
Post by: Jessica on September 21, 2015, 07:14:11 AM
I finished this book and Jewel makes it sound like she's never touring Europe again. :( 

Sorry, y'all.

I feel like I knew all of the "big" revelations already, but I didn't know if they were true or not. Remember this:

https://books.google.com/books?id=KwoEAAAAMBAJ&pg=PA7-IA5&lpg=PA7-IA5&dq=jewel+kilcher+inga+Vainshtein++lawsuit&source=bl&ots=xys8A34yGj&sig=SaRRgfWucvMY9MdHrtC3xTlz2ZI&hl=en&sa=X&ved=0CCsQ6AEwAmoVChMI19eGo6OIyAIVy5ENCh1QVgaS#v=onepage&q=jewel%20kilcher%20inga%20Vainshtein%20%20lawsuit&f=false

“Carroll allegedly ‘convinced Jewel that any managerial advice provided by Vainshtein had to be approved by a ‘channeler’ named Jackie Snyder who purportedly evaluated the advice by communing with some entity referred to as ‘Z,’’ the section states and 'wrongfully urged her daughter to ‘evauluate’ Vainshtein and her job performance by subjecting Vainshtein to a sham psychological assessment.'”

No allegedly about it, now.

(http://i.imgur.com/WENpXwS.jpg)
Title: Re: Book discussion thread.
Post by: Nobody on September 21, 2015, 07:51:50 AM
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I haven't finished the book yet.  Almost.  But Howard called her on "Z" thing in their first interview.  He actually called her on ALL of the stuff she has in the book.  And Jaque, is who Violet Eyes and Shape of You is about.  I always thought she and Jewel had a "thing."  I'm kind of surprised, so far, by how she is treating the subject of romance and her relationships.  Like, the Swedish guy she was with...he just disappears and then gives her the money to buy the van.  In CDTD she goes into details about living in Colorado with him and leaving him.  I was waiting for the unrequited love part...maybe she circles back around.  Also, she mentions that she saw first saw Ty in 1999, but I recall it originally reported in 1998.  So, for me, some things do not add up.  Still, I like the book and don't care about her romances enough to be bothered by the inconsistencies.

Thus Spoke Zarathustra - is a book by Neitsche.  It's big in the metaphysical community.  I've read it.  He's like another Bobaji.  So, in a way - it can be shocking to people that aren't "new agey", philosophers or mythologists, to hear about channeling him.  Many people reference him and claim to chanel him.  It's not surprising and I don't discount any aspect of spirituality (especially based on my beliefs). 

Again, the playing down of the influence people like Poltz, or Jaque had on her is what surprised me.  I haven't been rocked by anything I didn't see coming...but I have 2 discs left to go.
 
Title: Re: Book discussion thread.
Post by: Jessica on September 21, 2015, 08:08:35 AM
Agreed on all counts and I KNEW that Zarawhatever dude sounded familiar!!  Neitsche - of course!
Title: Re: Book discussion thread.
Post by: Javo on September 21, 2015, 10:27:00 AM
Yo! I'm back. How are you?  :flower:

I had given up on Jewel, but some months ago, after chatting with Emilie (who else?!) I decided to give her new album a chance. And I was glad: I love it.
Then I got her book on my Kindle - I read half of it and I'm really enjoying it. It's like the adult version of CDTD, where things are finally explained.

Welcome!
I like this album very much too, glas she's singing our favourite genre again
Title: Re: Book discussion thread.
Post by: Mr. Joe on September 21, 2015, 03:05:23 PM
Yo! I'm back. How are you?  :flower:

I had given up on Jewel, but some months ago, after chatting with Emilie (who else?!) I decided to give her new album a chance. And I was glad: I love it.
Then I got her book on my Kindle - I read half of it and I'm really enjoying it. It's like the adult version of CDTD, where things are finally explained.

Thank you for the great review of Never Broken, I picked a copy at Jewels book signing in Birmingham on 17 September and haven't had time to get started in earnest, I turned to the pictures first thing while waiting for Jewels arrival, was just to excited to read then.  :thumbup:
Title: Re: Book discussion thread.
Post by: Randy on September 21, 2015, 04:01:06 PM
Oh, wow. I'm behind many of you in reading this and just finished the Wizard of Oz chapter, which compels me to say that the parallels she drew between Dorothy and her own situation at the time just knocked me out. I think we all know who the faux Wizard was.
Title: Re: Book discussion thread.
Post by: Randy on September 21, 2015, 04:43:52 PM
...and another connection made, this time through the pictures. Lee Greene is the dude who was sitting with Jewel all three times that I've seen her photographed at Madison Square Garden for hockey or basketball games, although they did ID him as Ty Murray in the photo caption that one time...
Title: Re: Book discussion thread.
Post by: Lily on September 22, 2015, 12:32:56 AM
Are the pictures supposed to be all in once place? Because on the ebook I haven't found them yet.  :crying:

My, everything about Nedra is a giant  :facepalm:
Title: Re: Book discussion thread.
Post by: Jessica on September 22, 2015, 06:47:05 AM
Yeah, Nedra sucks.

In the physical book, the pictures are after page 203, but I have the enhanced eBook thing and I can't find the pictures. :(
Title: Re: Book discussion thread.
Post by: Nobody on September 22, 2015, 07:46:22 AM
 :book:
Done.  WOW.

I can't say I didn't see the turn the book was going to take, but hot damn, Miss Jewel has some class.  I give her a lot of credit.

I give the book an 8/10 and the audio book a 10/10.
Title: Re: Book discussion thread.
Post by: Ashley on September 22, 2015, 04:54:38 PM
JESS this board is gorgeous!! My first time here!!
Title: Re: Book discussion thread.
Post by: Jessica on September 22, 2015, 05:01:09 PM
Thanks!!  Glad you like it!

Welcome! :flower: :D
Title: Re: Book discussion thread.
Post by: Mr. Joe on September 22, 2015, 08:52:04 PM
:book:
Done.  WOW.

I can't say I didn't see the turn the book was going to take, but hot damn, Miss Jewel has some class.  I give her a lot of credit.

I give the book an 8/10 and the audio book a 10/10.

Where did you get the audio book, I was waiting for it from the jeweljk store, but it still not listed there.  :boycomp: :help:
Title: Re: Book discussion thread.
Post by: Donna Sue on September 23, 2015, 02:48:07 AM
FINALLY GOT MY BOOK!  :woot:

Reading like a fiend now..... lol   :book: :book: :book:

Wow. Some of this stuff is blowing me away. Poor Jewel.  :(
Title: Re: Book discussion thread.
Post by: Garf on September 23, 2015, 06:49:05 AM
Between being a slow ass reader and hardly getting any time to myself, it's gonna take me forever to read this. Like it so far though.

By the time I finish, she'll release her retirement book... Always Broken: Hips Are Only Half the Story
Title: Re: Book discussion thread.
Post by: Nobody on September 23, 2015, 07:22:03 AM
:book:
Done.  WOW.

I can't say I didn't see the turn the book was going to take, but hot damn, Miss Jewel has some class.  I give her a lot of credit.

I give the book an 8/10 and the audio book a 10/10.

Where did you get the audio book, I was waiting for it from the jeweljk store, but it still not listed there.  :boycomp: :help:

I got my copy of the audiobook at Barnes and Noble, where I also bought the hardcover book.  I ordered the gold bundle, but being as screwy as I am, I can't read the signed copy - so, the touchable copy is the one I got at B&N.  That will also be the copy that goes on the bookshelf. 
Title: Re: Book discussion thread.
Post by: Nobody on September 23, 2015, 07:23:37 AM
Between being a slow ass reader and hardly getting any time to myself, it's gonna take me forever to read this. Like it so far though.

By the time I finish, she'll release her retirement book... Always Broken: Hips Are Only Half the Story

 :hug:   :rofl2:
You always make me laugh.

FINALLY GOT MY BOOK!  :woot:

Reading like a fiend now..... lol   :book: :book: :book:

Wow. Some of this stuff is blowing me away. Poor Jewel.  :(

YAAAAY!  Your order finally arrived.
Title: Re: Book discussion thread.
Post by: Lily on September 23, 2015, 07:29:50 AM
Oh! The pictures are the end of the ebook.  ;)
Title: Re: Book discussion thread.
Post by: Jessica on September 23, 2015, 07:31:40 AM
By the time I finish, she'll release her retirement book... Always Broken: Hips Are Only Half the Story

:lol:


Glad you finally got your order, Donna!
Title: Re: Book discussion thread.
Post by: Jessica on September 23, 2015, 07:32:08 AM
Oh! The pictures are the end of the ebook.  ;)

That makes sense, duh! :lol:  I didn't even think to check there.
Title: Re: Book discussion thread.
Post by: Javo on September 23, 2015, 09:12:02 AM
Accoording the USPS site my parcel is delivered as well...but..no parcel here, not even a note.
I tried to email USPS, but I have to fill in my address...no problem you think...I don't have an american adress, and from that point on I can't get any further.

So I decided to mail the Jewel Store...since we're such good friends I hope they can see what's happened.
Title: Re: Book discussion thread.
Post by: Mr. Joe on September 23, 2015, 11:29:41 AM
FINALLY GOT MY BOOK!  :woot:

Reading like a fiend now..... lol   :book: :book: :book:

Wow. Some of this stuff is blowing me away. Poor Jewel.  :(

So happy to hear your book has arrived.  :woot:

We lose track of the fact that Canadians are treated like "Redheaded Cousins" or something.  :facepalm:

I grew up in Ohio and we often went across Lake Erie when fishing to the Canadian side, Pelee Island. Visited Windsor a few times from Detroit. Great country.  :hi5:
Title: Re: Book discussion thread.
Post by: Mr. Joe on September 23, 2015, 11:33:03 AM
Between being a slow ass reader and hardly getting any time to myself, it's gonna take me forever to read this. Like it so far though.

By the time I finish, she'll release her retirement book... Always Broken: Hips Are Only Half the Story

Always witty we enjoy your posts.  :rofl2: :bump:
Title: Re: Book discussion thread.
Post by: Mr. Joe on September 23, 2015, 11:41:43 AM
Accoording the USPS site my parcel is delivered as well...but..no parcel here, not even a note.
I tried to email USPS, but I have to fill in my address...no problem you think...I don't have an american adress, and from that point on I can't get any further.

So I decided to mail the Jewel Store...since we're such good friends I hope they can see what's happened.

In my dealings with the USPS and overseas mailing, I noticed that often they show "Delivered" when parcel reaches Point of Debarkation (US side) and/or Point of Embarkation (overseas), so "Delivered is a relative term.  :confused:

Wishing you good luck.  ;)
Title: Re: Book discussion thread.
Post by: Randy on September 23, 2015, 02:26:28 PM
FINALLY GOT MY BOOK!  :woot:
:thomdance:

Wow. Some of this stuff is blowing me away. Poor Jewel.  :(
Some of that early stuff was hard to read, but fascinating.

Between being a slow ass reader and hardly getting any time to myself, it's gonna take me forever to read this.
That's exactly where I was a couple days ago, but I found some time yesterday and hammered my way through the second half. Gotta admit though, my eyes kind of glazed over and I skimmed through some of the self-help stuff at the end. Just the facts for me.

Does that make me a bad fan? :fallen:
Title: Re: Book discussion thread.
Post by: Jessica on September 23, 2015, 02:27:39 PM
I skimmed the self-help stuff, too, so we're bad fans together.  I imagine we'll get plenty of it when the jewelneverbroken.com site gets launched.
Title: Re: Book discussion thread.
Post by: Randy on September 23, 2015, 02:32:42 PM
Outlaws!

The way my mind works is so many light-years away from the way Jewel's does, I can't even comprehend some of her concepts.
Title: Re: Book discussion thread.
Post by: Randy on September 23, 2015, 02:44:35 PM
Anyway...

In the book, (maybe I should spoiler this)
Spoiler: show
in the last paragraph of chapter 27 when she's talking about planned baby sex and stress, it seems to end really abruptly to me. You can almost see the editing. I think she wrote a lot of stuff here, and then thought better of it and replaced it with "There are many stories here, but suffice it to say that once again my need for love and for a fantasy outpaced my ability to see the truth."


The result is very cryptic.


Hehe. I guess placing a quote inside a spoiler broke the system. Changed it.
Title: Re: Book discussion thread.
Post by: Jessica on September 23, 2015, 02:57:33 PM
Best to keep details of the relationship hush-hush until the divorce is final, which can take years and years and years. 
Title: Re: Book discussion thread.
Post by: Randy on September 23, 2015, 03:04:25 PM
Also: In chapter 22, in the section that goes from meeting Kevyn Aucoin through the MTV Video Awards to the Tupac revelation, man, I felt her terror on the red carpet. I don't know if that's due to good writing or just the way I felt at the time, but it hit me.

...

I wasn't aware of the way (or when) she met Virginia either. That was pretty cool.
Title: Re: Book discussion thread.
Post by: Nobody on September 23, 2015, 03:42:38 PM
Anyway...

In the book, (maybe I should spoiler this)
Spoiler: show
in the last paragraph of chapter 27 when she's talking about planned baby sex and stress, it seems to end really abruptly to me. You can almost see the editing. I think she wrote a lot of stuff here, and then thought better of it and replaced it with "There are many stories here, but suffice it to say that once again my need for love and for a fantasy outpaced my ability to see the truth."


The result is very cryptic.


Hehe. I guess placing a quote inside a spoiler broke the system. Changed it.

That happened a few places.  That's why you hire and editor.
Title: Re: Book discussion thread.
Post by: Randy on September 23, 2015, 03:48:30 PM
Some of the things I said there, I didn't say  /Yogi
Title: Re: Book discussion thread.
Post by: Nobody on September 23, 2015, 03:49:27 PM
Outlaws!

The way my mind works is so many light-years away from the way Jewel's does, I can't even comprehend some of her concepts.

Being a self-proclaimed new age fruit cake - I totally got why things went down the way they did.  We think the same way.  I thought it was actually pretty cool, but can see where it may not translate to mainstream well...especially if it's not your thing.  Spirituality vs religion, add in philosophy and art and yeah, Nedra is evil.  I'm surprised she hasn't grown hooves and horns yet.  I rather enjoyed it and:
Spoiler: show
The chapter written to Kase had me balling.  It was so very heartfelt and protective.  I didn't find it contrived at all. 

Shockingly enough the Mrs is not a Jewel fan, and she has been reading (and enjoying the book).  Surely, Mercury is in retrograde. :P
Title: Re: Book discussion thread.
Post by: Lily on September 24, 2015, 02:41:41 AM
I really enjoyed the bits about psychology, I'm amazed she was so able to analyze (and help) herself so well from such a young age. There are processes one person only understands in therapy.
Title: Re: Book discussion thread.
Post by: Nobody on September 24, 2015, 07:41:13 AM
I think I missed something...

Spoiler: show
I feel like a guy, because I want to say - Chicks, I don't get 'em.  Didn't Jewel say, in some of the early book tour appearances (before it was out) that there was something about unrequited love?  Now, romance or romantic relationships are never a reason I read (or write).  But I had lots of time in the car yesterday and was listening to my Jewel playlist and was thinking about it all - cause, hours of traffic and all.  And I'm trying to figure, despite vague parts of the book - who was she referencing?  Sean Penn, the Swedish dude?  There's no mention of Poltz, so it can't be him.

So yeah, chicks.  i don't get 'em 
 

 :rofl2:
Title: Re: Book discussion thread.
Post by: Jessica on September 24, 2015, 07:43:08 AM
I think it's gotta be

Spoiler: show

the sweedish dude.  It's gotta be. :lol:

But I do want to know what happened with Poltz...
Title: Re: Book discussion thread.
Post by: Nobody on September 24, 2015, 07:48:04 AM
Spoiler: show
That's what I thought.  In CDTD - she admits to skipping out on him.

The lack of Poltz was weird, but I guess it was already 400 pages, 10 1/2 hrs on cd - her editor probably figured we all knew the Poltz stories.  Still, his influence on her early songs is so obvious...and when her style changed and it was more of her own voice and style taking over. 
   :shrug2:
Title: Re: Book discussion thread.
Post by: Donna Sue on September 25, 2015, 07:44:28 AM
Spoiler: show
So it wasn't just me... she WAS vague about her relationships with these guys. I was hoping for more on her and Poltz too, since she didn't really talk about him much in CDTD. I loved the way some of her music was influenced by him. He seems to bring out the happy, silliness in her (probably because he's such a goofball himself). If you were a Jewel newb reading this book, however, you'd never even know they had a relationship.

The part about Nedra screaming at her... I didn't realize until I got to the very end of it that I was holding my breath. What a powerful story... like the light just went on and she realized she had been fooling herself this whole time to what her mother really was. Crazy. And very, very sad.  :cry: 


I skimmed the self-help stuff, too, so we're bad fans together.  I imagine we'll get plenty of it when the jewelneverbroken.com site gets launched.

 :that:

Title: Re: Book discussion thread.
Post by: Angel Eyes on September 25, 2015, 06:18:39 PM
A couple of songs that make more sense now after the book:

Goodbye Alice in Wonderland (obviously):
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Y-V7diWWlVg

Becoming, which I've always loved but always wondered what the underlying reason was that she wrote it:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sTT02PY4YJQ

Love Is A Garden, which I always figured was about her brief break up with Ty, but you know, some things weren't quite as obvious. :)
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RJT7BhyNBwM


Any other songs to add? :thinking:
Title: Re: Book discussion thread.
Post by: Jessica on September 25, 2015, 06:24:24 PM
You lied.
Title: Re: Book discussion thread.
Post by: Angel Eyes on September 25, 2015, 06:35:04 PM
You lied.

Oh yeah, totally. :) "Eager like a puppy, like a puppet I gave everything to satisfy your endless needs." Dang.
Title: Re: Book discussion thread.
Post by: jewelwiki on September 25, 2015, 06:46:54 PM
If My Heart Were Made of Gold

Edit: Yay 100 Posts!
Title: Re: Book discussion thread.
Post by: jewelwiki on September 25, 2015, 06:57:35 PM
It's funny, I didn't think Nedra with this song originally, but now it's much clearer.

Quote
The lights bright up the Christmas Tree,
Oh goody, it's Christmas Eve
I got my baby, got his family and friends
Draw another year to an end

Ribbons gold and blue
Do not deliver you
Presents pretty and bright
Don't fill this empty space tonight
Oh, if my heart were made of gold
If my heart were made of gold
Then maybe, you'd find something
To love about me

The weather is unseasonably warm
Everybody's wishing for a Texas snowstorm
Don't peek in the stocking
Don't let my mind drift
There is a missing gift

Ribbons gold and blue
Do not deliver you
Presents pretty and bright
Don't fill this empty space tonight
Oh, if my heart were made of gold
If my heart were made of gold
Then maybe, you'd find something
To love about me

You only wanted to see the gold star
At the top of the tree
Oh, I wished I may,
I wished my whole life
To shine as bright
Bright enough for you to see
The gold, oh, the gold,
Oh, the gold, soft, shining gold
You only wanted gold
I was never the kind that you could hold
Oh, why can't you see the treasure
Inside of me
Title: Re: Book discussion thread.
Post by: Angel Eyes on September 25, 2015, 07:13:53 PM
I don't know when I thought it could be about Nedra, but I had a idea that it might be even though it didn't seem to make as much sense. I knew it wasn't Ty just because of the "got my baby, got his family and friends" line. Reading the lyrics now, though, it's even more obvious than what GAIW is.
Title: Re: Book discussion thread.
Post by: Donna Sue on September 26, 2015, 05:23:48 AM
I don't know when I thought it could be about Nedra, but I had a idea that it might be even though it didn't seem to make as much sense. I knew it wasn't Ty just because of the "got my baby, got his family and friends" line. Reading the lyrics now, though, it's even more obvious than what GAIW is.

I've thought the exact same thing.... it couldn't be about Ty since she mentions him in IMHWMOG. But now it's pretty clear. Wow. She must have been in huge pain to write so many songs about Nedra like this. Geez.
Title: Re: Book discussion thread.
Post by: Lily on September 26, 2015, 11:06:29 AM
Nedra is such a $piritual person.
Title: Re: Book discussion thread.
Post by: Mr. Joe on September 26, 2015, 01:41:56 PM
Nedra is such a $piritual person.

Nice comment.  :rofl2:
Title: Re: Book discussion thread.
Post by: Randy on September 26, 2015, 03:18:00 PM
I'm a little surprised that the Nedra story wasn't picked up by the magazines. Maybe there's too much stuff there to fit into a nice tidy tabloid headline.
Title: Re: Book discussion thread.
Post by: Javo on September 26, 2015, 03:47:13 PM
That really makes it a heartbreaking song.
Title: Re: Book discussion thread.
Post by: Nobody on September 27, 2015, 03:46:28 PM
I'm a little surprised that the Nedra story wasn't picked up by the magazines. Maybe there's too much stuff there to fit into a nice tidy tabloid headline.

My guess, is that there are agreed upon topics that came about through costly lawyers and litigation.  I also wonder, if Nedra had that much control, how much does she own and is she getting royalties and percentagge points on some merch.  It's an evil business, worse when you're trying to be spiritual and your family screws you over.  Been there for all 3.

The way Jewel handles herself and her personal life (relationships), while being true to her art - has always impressed me.
Title: Re: Book discussion thread.
Post by: lindawmn on September 29, 2015, 06:43:55 PM
Also: In chapter 22, in the section that goes from meeting Kevyn Aucoin through the MTV Video Awards to the Tupac revelation, man, I felt her terror on the red carpet. I don't know if that's due to good writing or just the way I felt at the time, but it hit me.

...

I wasn't aware of the way (or when) she met Virginia either. That was pretty cool.

That was fantastic, the way she kept hitting the lock button. Aucoin made some killer product and his memory lives on through them.

Nedra is a sociopath, without a doubt. The way Jewel described the bit re: the vacation home? How fast she switched when backed to the wall? She broke for just a moment.

I've dealt with at least one sociopath and even with a good childhood, they are so smooth, so practiced and calculating, you lose yourself to some degree. There's a part of your mind that holds the image of that robot from the old Lost In Space series (Danger Will Robinson!!) while another part tells you that you are being ridiculous. It's similar to why even after Ted Bundy's girlfriend found the plaster of paris in their bedroom closet, as well as the fake slings, her mind wouldn't let her believe it was 'her Ted'. The rational part of her called her girlfriend, who she knew would turn him in, while at the same time sitting there in complete denial.

An acquaintance of mine, who's husband was sociopathic, literally ended up checking herself into a psychiatric hospital at the suggestion of her 'concerned' husband, who had been continually gas lighting her. When she did, he took all the money, sent the daughter to a school for troubled kids (she was a teen and had figured her father out) and got full custody of the son. He went from concerned to cold instantly. The psychiatrist at the center figured it out fast, since there was nothing wrong with her.

Dealing with people like this is just mind-altering.
Title: Re: Book discussion thread.
Post by: Jessica on September 29, 2015, 06:53:01 PM
That gas-lighting crap is no joke, too!  It's so common, too.  Thank the stars she had a reasonable psychiatrist and not a money-grubbing bored person for a therapist.

But, yeah, Nedra is a fu...freaking joke and I wish all the emotional pain she's inflicted on others comes back around x3.  We should have known she was legit loony toons.  Remember that weird video that was 10 minutes of her staring at the camera?  Creep factor 10.

Title: Re: Book discussion thread.
Post by: Angel Eyes on September 29, 2015, 08:28:35 PM
I started reading the book while listening to the audio book and I've noticed differences between the two. In the poem My New Shape she leaves out some parts in the audio book such as "Would have lost the ranch on that bet. Actually, I did..." and "The loss of innocence for my son." and "No more submissive posture." and most glaring "I spent a lifetime being small for those closest to me, but this is not the woman my son will know."

I wonder why she left them out? :thinking:
Title: Re: Book discussion thread.
Post by: darwin on September 29, 2015, 08:34:52 PM
I just finished listening up to Chapter 23. Now I know why she opted to completely cut off Nedra from her life. Her mom literally brainwashed and manipulated her...  :cry:
Title: Re: Book discussion thread.
Post by: Donna Sue on September 30, 2015, 03:02:39 AM
Remember that weird video that was 10 minutes of her staring at the camera?  Creep factor 10.

Yes! Very creepy indeed...  :(
Title: Re: Book discussion thread.
Post by: Javo on September 30, 2015, 09:24:37 AM
Remember that weird video that was 10 minutes of her staring at the camera?  Creep factor 10.

Yes! Very creepy indeed...  :(

What kind of video was that. can I still see it somewhere?
Title: Re: Book discussion thread.
Post by: Jessica on September 30, 2015, 10:15:51 AM
i don't know - I can't find it anymore.

Trust me, it was weird.  It was a webcam video.  I saw it years ago.  Fruit Loops.
Title: Re: Book discussion thread.
Post by: lindawmn on September 30, 2015, 12:59:11 PM
That gas-lighting crap is no joke, too!  It's so common, too.  Thank the stars she had a reasonable psychiatrist and not a money-grubbing bored person for a therapist.

But, yeah, Nedra is a fu...freaking joke and I wish all the emotional pain she's inflicted on others comes back around x3.  We should have known she was legit loony toons.  Remember that weird video that was 10 minutes of her staring at the camera?  Creep factor 10.

I always thought so. Something about her was just wrong. She pegged my 'hinky meter'
Title: Re: Book discussion thread.
Post by: Nobody on September 30, 2015, 08:21:43 PM
i don't know - I can't find it anymore.

Trust me, it was weird.  It was a webcam video.  I saw it years ago.  Fruit Loops.

It's recently been pulled.  Was up there with a lot of other shite about aundance.  All deleted.
Title: Re: Book discussion thread.
Post by: Jessica on October 01, 2015, 07:01:37 AM
I swear she had a huge youtube account, too, but now there are only two videos, so that explains why I can't find it!
Title: Re: Book discussion thread.
Post by: Nobody on October 01, 2015, 08:16:30 AM
I swear she had a huge youtube account, too, but now there are only two videos, so that explains why I can't find it!

Damage control.  She pulled all the wacky vids she had up from her "lectures" and the weird staring one.  You're right, there were a shitfuckton of videos up.  It's all down since the book....or maybe, right before.  Appearances.  Wolf in sheep's clothing, false prophet....she sucks.

And I say that with, love, light and a believer in most things "new agey."



Title: Re: Book discussion thread.
Post by: Nobody on October 01, 2015, 08:21:46 AM
Also: In chapter 22, in the section that goes from meeting Kevyn Aucoin through the MTV Video Awards to the Tupac revelation, man, I felt her terror on the red carpet. I don't know if that's due to good writing or just the way I felt at the time, but it hit me.

...

I wasn't aware of the way (or when) she met Virginia either. That was pretty cool.

That was fantastic, the way she kept hitting the lock button. Aucoin made some killer product and his memory lives on through them.

Nedra is a sociopath, without a doubt. The way Jewel described the bit re: the vacation home? How fast she switched when backed to the wall? She broke for just a moment.

I've dealt with at least one sociopath and even with a good childhood, they are so smooth, so practiced and calculating, you lose yourself to some degree. There's a part of your mind that holds the image of that robot from the old Lost In Space series (Danger Will Robinson!!) while another part tells you that you are being ridiculous. It's similar to why even after Ted Bundy's girlfriend found the plaster of paris in their bedroom closet, as well as the fake slings, her mind wouldn't let her believe it was 'her Ted'. The rational part of her called her girlfriend, who she knew would turn him in, while at the same time sitting there in complete denial.

An acquaintance of mine, who's husband was sociopathic, literally ended up checking herself into a psychiatric hospital at the suggestion of her 'concerned' husband, who had been continually gas lighting her. When she did, he took all the money, sent the daughter to a school for troubled kids (she was a teen and had figured her father out) and got full custody of the son. He went from concerned to cold instantly. The psychiatrist at the center figured it out fast, since there was nothing wrong with her.

Dealing with people like this is just mind-altering.

 :that:
 It's scary and when it's a family member; heartbreaking.  It's almost like trying to love an alcoholic or an addict.  They just never see past themselves, their life or their _____.  It doesn't matter what you do or say.  I think the lying is the worst.
Title: So this happened just now on Amazon......
Post by: SH_GreyMatter on October 02, 2015, 07:00:56 PM
Reviewer on Amazon writes:

3.0 out of 5 stars"Reality TV" impession of circumstances and experiences
Bylinda in ohio Amazon Customeron September 27, 2015
Format: Kindle EditionVerified Purchase
Reading this book was a challenge. I hate to buy something and abandon it . I slogged through it hoping to find redeemming content. There is none. Just another episode of the current trend of tv reality shows Alaskan style. Look at me....look at me...... Just not believeable. I really wanted this book to be a great read. Just too many unrealistic happenings.......always some hero steps in to save the day. Even stories of possible stress related kleptomania were over the top. Jewel did not steal one bathing suit......she took four. Every instance was over the top. Sour grapes here? I don't want to complain just sharing my personal thoughts on my interpretation of this book.


And I write this:

Sharon D Hatfield 5 minutes ago
Be careful not to doubt validity just because it doesn't mirror your surroundings or the life you lived. Absolutely nothing in this book is a fairy tale unfortunately and there are no "heroes" stepping in. The hero here is Jewel herself...primarily because she has been able to overcome the negativity of doubters throughout her life. ....and do so absolutely alone. Many can relate to all of her experiences... there are people who go through these circumstances in real life and it isn't played out on a camera. This book was therapy for herself above everything else. And next the book is for those of us who do relate and need assistance articulating what we have spent a lifetime trying to capture in written word. There is comfort in familiarity and in knowing what you have gone through isn't isolated. Perhaps a fictional novel would better suit the reading interests of those who want to escape the raw ugly reality of some people's lives.
Title: Re: Book discussion thread.
Post by: lindawmn on October 02, 2015, 07:07:18 PM
Also: In chapter 22, in the section that goes from meeting Kevyn Aucoin through the MTV Video Awards to the Tupac revelation, man, I felt her terror on the red carpet. I don't know if that's due to good writing or just the way I felt at the time, but it hit me.

...

I wasn't aware of the way (or when) she met Virginia either. That was pretty cool.

That was fantastic, the way she kept hitting the lock button. Aucoin made some killer product and his memory lives on through them.

Nedra is a sociopath, without a doubt. The way Jewel described the bit re: the vacation home? How fast she switched when backed to the wall? She broke for just a moment.

I've dealt with at least one sociopath and even with a good childhood, they are so smooth, so practiced and calculating, you lose yourself to some degree. There's a part of your mind that holds the image of that robot from the old Lost In Space series (Danger Will Robinson!!) while another part tells you that you are being ridiculous. It's similar to why even after Ted Bundy's girlfriend found the plaster of paris in their bedroom closet, as well as the fake slings, her mind wouldn't let her believe it was 'her Ted'. The rational part of her called her girlfriend, who she knew would turn him in, while at the same time sitting there in complete denial.

An acquaintance of mine, who's husband was sociopathic, literally ended up checking herself into a psychiatric hospital at the suggestion of her 'concerned' husband, who had been continually gas lighting her. When she did, he took all the money, sent the daughter to a school for troubled kids (she was a teen and had figured her father out) and got full custody of the son. He went from concerned to cold instantly. The psychiatrist at the center figured it out fast, since there was nothing wrong with her.

Dealing with people like this is just mind-altering.

 :that:
 It's scary and when it's a family member; heartbreaking.  It's almost like trying to love an alcoholic or an addict.  They just never see past themselves, their life or their _____.  It doesn't matter what you do or say.  I think the lying is the worst.

Yep. It was mind-blowing in so many different ways. Even her neighbor, a guy, came and apologized, saying he thought something was off but never said anything.
Title: Re: Book discussion thread.
Post by: SH_GreyMatter on October 02, 2015, 07:11:24 PM
I swear she had a huge youtube account, too, but now there are only two videos, so that explains why I can't find it!

Damage control.  She pulled all the wacky vids she had up from her "lectures" and the weird staring one.  You're right, there were a shitfuckton of videos up.  It's all down since the book....or maybe, right before.  Appearances.  Wolf in sheep's clothing, false prophet....she sucks.

And I say that with, love, light and a believer in most things "new agey."

All of those creepy videos got pulled sometime last week the best I can tell.  About two weeks ago I went online and they were all there..and I was guilty of "cyberbully comments" on Nedra's videos.  I guess others must have joined in and she took them down.  The only one left is something she didn't post but someone else posted of a live interview.  Look at the comments on that one....EDAs 'hatin' on mommy dearest on that one too.
Title: Re: So this happened just now on Amazon......
Post by: jewelwiki on October 03, 2015, 12:12:07 AM
3/5 for such a negative review...not bad. Way to fly the freak flag on your response! I've bolded what could essentially be a tagline for the book. I think you should tweet her with it and #NeverBroken and get a RT.

Reviewer on Amazon writes:

3.0 out of 5 stars"Reality TV" impession of circumstances and experiences
Bylinda in ohio Amazon Customeron September 27, 2015
Format: Kindle EditionVerified Purchase
Reading this book was a challenge. I hate to buy something and abandon it . I slogged through it hoping to find redeemming content. There is none. Just another episode of the current trend of tv reality shows Alaskan style. Look at me....look at me...... Just not believeable. I really wanted this book to be a great read. Just too many unrealistic happenings.......always some hero steps in to save the day. Even stories of possible stress related kleptomania were over the top. Jewel did not steal one bathing suit......she took four. Every instance was over the top. Sour grapes here? I don't want to complain just sharing my personal thoughts on my interpretation of this book.


And I write this:

Sharon D Hatfield 5 minutes ago
Be careful not to doubt validity just because it doesn't mirror your surroundings or the life you lived. Absolutely nothing in this book is a fairy tale unfortunately and there are no "heroes" stepping in. The hero here is Jewel herself...primarily because she has been able to overcome the negativity of doubters throughout her life. ....and do so absolutely alone. Many can relate to all of her experiences... there are people who go through these circumstances in real life and it isn't played out on a camera. This book was therapy for herself above everything else. And next the book is for those of us who do relate and need assistance articulating what we have spent a lifetime trying to capture in written word. There is comfort in familiarity and in knowing what you have gone through isn't isolated. Perhaps a fictional novel would better suit the reading interests of those who want to escape the raw ugly reality of some people's lives.
Title: Re: Book discussion thread.
Post by: jewelwiki on October 03, 2015, 12:15:14 AM
So, Nedra bat not have been all Jewel needed in a mother, but I can't condone cyber bullying. I feel like it's the antithesis of EDA-dom. Granted I haven't even gotten 100 pages into the book, but still...Jewel has moved on, there's no need for us to bad mouth her further. ☺

I swear she had a huge youtube account, too, but now there are only two videos, so that explains why I can't find it!

Damage control.  She pulled all the wacky vids she had up from her "lectures" and the weird staring one.  You're right, there were a shitfuckton of videos up.  It's all down since the book....or maybe, right before.  Appearances.  Wolf in sheep's clothing, false prophet....she sucks.

And I say that with, love, light and a believer in most things "new agey."

All of those creepy videos got pulled sometime last week the best I can tell.  About two weeks ago I went online and they were all there..and I was guilty of "cyberbully comments" on Nedra's videos.  I guess others must have joined in and she took them down.  The only one left is something she didn't post but someone else posted of a live interview.  Look at the comments on that one....EDAs 'hatin' on mommy dearest on that one too.
Title: Re: Book discussion thread.
Post by: Nobody on October 03, 2015, 09:13:46 AM
So, Nedra bat not have been all Jewel needed in a mother, but I can't condone cyber bullying. I feel like it's the antithesis of EDA-dom. Granted I haven't even gotten 100 pages into the book, but still...Jewel has moved on, there's no need for us to bad mouth her further. ☺

I swear she had a huge youtube account, too, but now there are only two videos, so that explains why I can't find it!

Damage control.  She pulled all the wacky vids she had up from her "lectures" and the weird staring one.  You're right, there were a shitfuckton of videos up.  It's all down since the book....or maybe, right before.  Appearances.  Wolf in sheep's clothing, false prophet....she sucks.

And I say that with, love, light and a believer in most things "new agey."

All of those creepy videos got pulled sometime last week the best I can tell.  About two weeks ago I went online and they were all there..and I was guilty of "cyberbully comments" on Nedra's videos.  I guess others must have joined in and she took them down.  The only one left is something she didn't post but someone else posted of a live interview.  Look at the comments on that one....EDAs 'hatin' on mommy dearest on that one too.

I don't condone any type of bullying.

I don't have a youtube account.  I don't comment on anything I disagree with.  An internet comment isn't going to change someone's mind.  But, I don't find a problem in pointing out Nedra doing the opposite of what she preached and using it as a form of control.  It's a real problem in the "new age"  and pagan community.  We take a lot of flack for our beliefs and the work we really try to do on ourselves in earnest.
Title: Re: Book discussion thread.
Post by: jewelwiki on October 03, 2015, 09:30:08 AM
Hehe..drunk boarding last night. bat = may. Don't know where that mini-rant came from.  :oops:
Title: Re: So this happened just now on Amazon......
Post by: SH_GreyMatter on October 03, 2015, 03:46:45 PM
3/5 for such a negative review...not bad. Way to fly the freak flag on your response! I've bolded what could essentially be a tagline for the book. I think you should tweet her with it and #NeverBroken and get a RT.

Reviewer on Amazon writes:

3.0 out of 5 stars"Reality TV" impession of circumstances and experiences
Bylinda in ohio Amazon Customeron September 27, 2015
Format: Kindle EditionVerified Purchase
Reading this book was a challenge. I hate to buy something and abandon it . I slogged through it hoping to find redeemming content. There is none. Just another episode of the current trend of tv reality shows Alaskan style. Look at me....look at me...... Just not believeable. I really wanted this book to be a great read. Just too many unrealistic happenings.......always some hero steps in to save the day. Even stories of possible stress related kleptomania were over the top. Jewel did not steal one bathing suit......she took four. Every instance was over the top. Sour grapes here? I don't want to complain just sharing my personal thoughts on my interpretation of this book.


And I write this:

Sharon D Hatfield 5 minutes ago
Be careful not to doubt validity just because it doesn't mirror your surroundings or the life you lived. Absolutely nothing in this book is a fairy tale unfortunately and there are no "heroes" stepping in. The hero here is Jewel herself...primarily because she has been able to overcome the negativity of doubters throughout her life. ....and do so absolutely alone. Many can relate to all of her experiences... there are people who go through these circumstances in real life and it isn't played out on a camera. This book was therapy for herself above everything else. And next the book is for those of us who do relate and need assistance articulating what we have spent a lifetime trying to capture in written word. There is comfort in familiarity and in knowing what you have gone through isn't isolated. Perhaps a fictional novel would better suit the reading interests of those who want to escape the raw ugly reality of some people's lives.

Thanks.  But now the original reviewer has responded to my response and I can't make sense of it.  Perhaps someone can translate it for me?  And note--I did not misspell everything here...I copied and pasted what she wrote. 

linda in ohio Amazon Customer says:
Ty saved her...her gay friend saved her when hitching...numerous other instances of Jewel being assisted in her trials and tribulations. I am a huge Ty Murray fan and have followed his career since day one. Also, Uncle Otto and Charlotte were my favorite characters in the program before I even knew Jewell was involved . If you read my review you should have noticed I clearly stated the review is MY perspective of the content. Your judgemental approach to what I thought after reading the book is really not relevant to my review. To condem my perspective of what I find realistic does not pertain to the purpose of writing a review. Life is not easy and Jewel mentions often that her upbringing fostered self-reliance. Jewel often mentioned many family members and people she felt contributed to her life skills in a varety of ways.
Title: Re: Book discussion thread.
Post by: Jessica on October 03, 2015, 04:02:01 PM
I wouldn't respond further.  Like the lady says - it's just her opinion.
Title: Re: Book discussion thread.
Post by: SH_GreyMatter on October 03, 2015, 04:10:04 PM
I wouldn't respond further.  Like the lady says - it's just her opinion.

I actually just replied with nothing but:  "Thank you"
Title: Re: Book discussion thread.
Post by: lindawmn on October 03, 2015, 07:09:11 PM
I wouldn't respond further.  Like the lady says - it's just her opinion.

I actually just replied with nothing but:  "Thank you"

How did her family members suddenly get in there? I was understanding her post until that point.
Title: Re: Book discussion thread.
Post by: Craigy on October 03, 2015, 10:38:30 PM
It's a shame how things went down between her and Nedra. he sounds like a 'new age' type of personality. I am guessing that Nedra was a terrible businesswoman. when it comes to Z, well... I am always skeptical of anybody who 'channels' other beings. from an outsiders perspective they could have been a great con artist. I find it irritating. It does sound like it had a cultish feeling about the whole deal. for all I know Z could have took Nedra for all she was worth. I don't know. It was all around a bad situation. For Jewel It would be difficult to get over the one who is supposed to nurture you, but in turn comes to take you for all your worth. was it a matter of being controlled by mom? was it a matter of mom not knowing how to take care of her daughters fortune? It makes sense why her and Ty stuck together. life was a whrilwind. i imagine it still is living famously. finding some grounding is essential to any individuals well being.
Title: Re: Book discussion thread.
Post by: Randy on October 11, 2015, 02:20:16 PM
Well, hey there! I'm sort of back. The lady I'm dating loves to read, and I gave her a copy of Never Broken. She's still reading devouring it (Chapter 12) and it has just blown her away. I may have created a monster! We've watched videos and listened to PUtP too. She has suffered some losses in her life, and I forgot to warn her before The Shape of You came on. It broke her into little pieces. I'm kind of tearing up thinking about it now. But it's all good; she's loving this stuff.

I can't get onto the board from the laptop at her place, and can't figure out why just yet. Working on it...
Title: Re: Book discussion thread.
Post by: Donna Sue on October 12, 2015, 05:35:53 AM
Well, hey there! I'm sort of back. The lady I'm dating loves to read, and I gave her a copy of Never Broken. She's still reading devouring it (Chapter 12) and it has just blown her away. I may have created a monster! We've watched videos and listened to PUtP too. She has suffered some losses in her life, and I forgot to warn her before The Shape of You came on. It broke her into little pieces. I'm kind of tearing up thinking about it now. But it's all good; she's loving this stuff.

I can't get onto the board from the laptop at her place, and can't figure out why just yet. Working on it...
Hey Randy!  Is this ladyfriend of yours wearing the Jewel t-shirt on the regular now?   ;)

Hehe..drunk boarding last night. bat = may. Don't know where that mini-rant came from.  :oops:

Hehe.. I think its funny you log on to EDAs space when you are drunk...  :thumbup:
Title: Re: Book discussion thread.
Post by: Jessica on October 12, 2015, 07:02:43 AM
Hi, Randy!!  You've been greatly missed! 

Spread that EDA Faith!!
Title: Re: Book discussion thread.
Post by: Nobody on October 12, 2015, 08:09:44 AM
Hi, Randy!!  You've been greatly missed! 

Spread that EDA Faith!!

 :that:

Well, hey there! I'm sort of back. The lady I'm dating loves to read, and I gave her a copy of Never Broken. She's still reading devouring it (Chapter 12) and it has just blown her away. I may have created a monster! We've watched videos and listened to PUtP too. She has suffered some losses in her life, and I forgot to warn her before The Shape of You came on. It broke her into little pieces. I'm kind of tearing up thinking about it now. But it's all good; she's loving this stuff.

I can't get onto the board from the laptop at her place, and can't figure out why just yet. Working on it...
Hey Randy!  Is this ladyfriend of yours wearing the Jewel t-shirt on the regular now?   ;)

Hehe..drunk boarding last night. bat = may. Don't know where that mini-rant came from.  :oops:

Hehe.. I think its funny you log on to EDAs space when you are drunk...  :thumbup:

Probably one of the safest places to board when drunk. 
Title: Re: Book discussion thread.
Post by: Jessica on October 12, 2015, 01:25:47 PM
:lol: yeah, no one will really poo ya like they will on many bigger boards.

Ah, drunk boarding. :wub: it's been awhile.
Title: Re: Book discussion thread.
Post by: Fernando on October 12, 2015, 03:54:15 PM
Ok. I wasn't sure I was going to read this book since I already have like a ton of books on my kindle that I should have finished reading like a year ago (and some of them I have to read for work). But, after reading these posts now I clearly need to read it. I feel like I have gotten Nedra's view from her book. So, now I should hear Jewel's.

I had to Google to remember how to spell her name, and this was the first result (some interesting history - I didn't know her family was early homesteaders, too):

http://homertribune.com/2009/12/singer-writer-nedra-carroll-comes-home/

I remember the silent/stare video... I didn't get it at all. There's still a ton of videos on youtube about here, like this video:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mkQwbQoqgCc

which seems a little weird... but idk whatever. She still has her website up. So, it's not like she disappeared from the internet.
Title: Re: Book discussion thread.
Post by: Nobody on October 12, 2015, 04:11:57 PM
Seemingly, as the resident new age fruit cake, I gotta say, this woman pisses me right the f--- off. :banghead:
Title: Re: Book discussion thread.
Post by: Mr. Joe on October 13, 2015, 09:13:02 PM
Seemingly, as the resident new age fruit cake, I gotta say, this woman pisses me right the f--- off. :banghead:

I see it also.  :that:
Title: Re: Book discussion thread.
Post by: Angel Eyes on October 15, 2015, 04:22:59 AM
I'm trying to read the book while listening to the Audible version before my free trial expires in a few days, and there's one little, big difference I noticed. When Jewel mentioned that when she was trying to move out at 15 to live in that little cabin and she noticed the money she saved up was missing, you got the idea that Nedra took it even though Jewel didn't outright say that she took it. Nothing was really said afterward. Fast forward to her second year at Interlochen and she says she gains weight and decides to form a group for those with eating disorders. In the audio version she says "I had heard about twelve-step programs from my mom when she had taken my rent money." In the book the sentence doesn't include "when she had taken my rent money." I'm guessing this was one of the things she had to edit out of the book which explains why she didn't want Howard to talk about it in their interview. I didn't understand why at the time because she actually said so in the audio book, you know? That small addition/subtraction makes a difference, though, because in the book she talks about forgiving her mom, but you wouldn't understand what she would be forgiving her mom for. It's a good little anecdote for what happens later in her career, though, which is probably why she kept it in. This is in chapter 13, page 114 - 115, by the way.

On another, somewhat similar note, I found it rather odd how Nedra seemed to move around so much. She even left Jewel, her underage daughter, who stayed in a house all by herself while she finished a school year. What parent would do that? Just leave their child to fend for themselves? Even if people were more self-reliant in Alaska it's still baffling to me. And Nedra leaves again in San Diego after they move into their cars together. How crappy, then, for her to only stick around when Jewel really hit it big. Ew.
Title: Re: Book discussion thread.
Post by: Jessica on October 15, 2015, 06:16:11 AM
Good catch!

I thought I'd heard that it was clear her mom took the money, but I listened to the audiobook while I was working, so I wasn't sure if I imagined it or not while I was reading it! :lol: It is p solidly inferred in the book, but I didn't read it explicitly.   

Title: Re: Book discussion thread.
Post by: Frag on October 15, 2015, 06:34:14 AM
I finished the book last night, so once I have some time to go back thru the thread, I'll actually start opining.
Title: Re: Book discussion thread.
Post by: Nobody on October 15, 2015, 07:27:27 AM
I'm trying to read the book while listening to the Audible version before my free trial expires in a few days, and there's one little, big difference I noticed. When Jewel mentioned that when she was trying to move out at 15 to live in that little cabin and she noticed the money she saved up was missing, you got the idea that Nedra took it even though Jewel didn't outright say that she took it. Nothing was really said afterward. Fast forward to her second year at Interlochen and she says she gains weight and decides to form a group for those with eating disorders. In the audio version she says "I had heard about twelve-step programs from my mom when she had taken my rent money." In the book the sentence doesn't include "when she had taken my rent money." I'm guessing this was one of the things she had to edit out of the book which explains why she didn't want Howard to talk about it in their interview. I didn't understand why at the time because she actually said so in the audio book, you know? That small addition/subtraction makes a difference, though, because in the book she talks about forgiving her mom, but you wouldn't understand what she would be forgiving her mom for. It's a good little anecdote for what happens later in her career, though, which is probably why she kept it in. This is in chapter 13, page 114 - 115, by the way.

On another, somewhat similar note, I found it rather odd how Nedra seemed to move around so much. She even left Jewel, her underage daughter, who stayed in a house all by herself while she finished a school year. What parent would do that? Just leave their child to fend for themselves? Even if people were more self-reliant in Alaska it's still baffling to me. And Nedra leaves again in San Diego after they move into their cars together. How crappy, then, for her to only stick around when Jewel really hit it big. Ew.

That is good reasoning for the inconsitencies in the book vs audio.  I listened to the audio book at night...so, I wasn't reading along either.  I know someone else (may have been you - I didn't scroll back) mentioned another thing that was different.  I noticed, quite by accident, that the audiobook that I have is UNABRIDGED.  That could account for differences as well. 
Title: Re: Book discussion thread.
Post by: Jessica on October 15, 2015, 07:33:25 AM
That means you got the same version Stern had! :fun: No wonder it was the only copy they had!

Now I really think I should go back through it again...
Title: Re: Book discussion thread.
Post by: Nobody on October 15, 2015, 07:47:10 AM
That means you got the same version Stern had! :fun: No wonder it was the only copy they had!

Now I really think I should go back through it again...

Then it's the 9 cd version that Blackstone put out and Barnes and Noble carries.
Title: Re: Book discussion thread.
Post by: Lily on October 15, 2015, 08:13:17 AM
Good catch indeed.

One thing I noticed is that in CDTD Jewel mentions her mother suggested that she moves into a cabin by herself like a sort of a lovely, fun idea by the cool parent. On the contrary, in NB she says something like "what kind of parents suggests that to a 15 year old?"  :lol:
I didn't reread the whole book though, just some bits here and there.
Title: Re: Book discussion thread.
Post by: Jessica on October 15, 2015, 08:23:43 AM
Disclaimer: I used to hate it when people say this...but....

Man, views on that kind of stuff really changes when you grow up and/or have kids of your own!

I was reading some thread on the internet where all these teenagers were complaining about their parents and how they all wish they had more freedom and they hate their parents asking so many details about where they're going, what they're doing, who they'll be with and I'm like, "that's what parenting is, kiddo.  If they didn't do that, they'd be terrible parents!" but you know what?  When I was a teenager up through half of my 20s even, I'd have agreed with the teenagers!  Now that I'm getting to be old as dirt, I'm on the parents' side!  :lol:
Title: Re: Book discussion thread.
Post by: Nobody on October 15, 2015, 08:41:45 AM
Disclaimer: I used to hate it when people say this...but....

Man, views on that kind of stuff really changes when you grow up and/or have kids of your own!

I was reading some thread on the internet where all these teenagers were complaining about their parents and how they all wish they had more freedom and they hate their parents asking so many details about where they're going, what they're doing, who they'll be with and I'm like, "that's what parenting is, kiddo.  If they didn't do that, they'd be terrible parents!" but you know what?  When I was a teenager up through half of my 20s even, I'd have agreed with the teenagers!  Now that I'm getting to be old as dirt, I'm on the parents' side!  :lol:

 :grandma:
I rue the day I realized, youth is wasted on the young.  And I'm older than you, Jess :neener:

Wait til you realized you turned into one of your parents...that's a fun day.   :shiftyeyes_anim:                                   :rofl2:
Title: Re: Book discussion thread.
Post by: Jessica on October 15, 2015, 08:49:38 AM
I've already outlived my mom, so I'll never know on that one. And my dad and I are so dynamically different that I know I won't turn out like him in the least.  He's definitely a black sheep of the family, bless him.

My mom was a flighty hippie-type, so that ain't happening! :lol:

BUT, I have wound up having a lot more in common with my extended family than I ever thought possible, so it's happening!!  :fun:
Title: Re: Book discussion thread.
Post by: Mr. Joe on October 15, 2015, 09:15:15 PM
That means you got the same version Stern had! :fun: No wonder it was the only copy they had!

Now I really think I should go back through it again...

Then it's the 9 cd version that Blackstone put out and Barnes and Noble carries.

I have the DVD/MP3 version and am doing as Angel Eyes said, following Jewel in the audio book and reading along, but have not gotten that far into the book yet. Will be looking for the Nedra reference in chapter 13, page 114 & 115.  :jewelsmilie:
Title: Re: Book discussion thread.
Post by: Randy on October 17, 2015, 02:25:15 PM
Well, hey there! I'm sort of back. The lady I'm dating loves to read, and I gave her a copy of Never Broken. She's still reading devouring it (Chapter 12) and it has just blown her away. I may have created a monster! We've watched videos and listened to PUtP too. She has suffered some losses in her life, and I forgot to warn her before The Shape of You came on. It broke her into little pieces. I'm kind of tearing up thinking about it now. But it's all good; she's loving this stuff.

I can't get onto the board from the laptop at her place, and can't figure out why just yet. Working on it...
Hey Randy!  Is this ladyfriend of yours wearing the Jewel t-shirt on the regular now?   ;)


Errr...oops. No. Different lady.  :w

I'm not asking for the shirt back, though. That's probably bad form.


I'm missing being here something fierce. I'll figure her laptop out soon, hopefully. Or maybe come home once in a while...
Title: Re: Book discussion thread.
Post by: Jessica on October 18, 2015, 08:16:57 AM
We miss you too. :(
Title: Re: Book discussion thread.
Post by: Javo on October 21, 2015, 11:18:26 AM
I just read the foreword and the first 2 chapters. Jewel has a nice writing style, it reads easily and makes you want to read more. Already looking forward to read the rest. Perhaps a few chapters this weekend.
Title: Re: Book discussion thread.
Post by: Jessica on October 21, 2015, 11:23:25 AM
Yeah, it's a nice, quick read. :)
Title: Re: Book discussion thread.
Post by: Angel Eyes on November 06, 2015, 02:02:25 AM
Take from the poll thread:

The latest chapter I listened to today was describing how the guy at the job wouldn't pay her because she'd turned him down the day before, and he then ignored her the next day. I was fully expecting that Nedra was going to march her back down there and demand she gets the money she rightfully earned, so was quite astounded (and frustrated) when she simply suggest they just live in their cars. Sheesh.

You know, this is one part I found curious. In Chasing Down the Dawn she mentions how Nedra was furious and demanded the money from Jewel's boss, but in Never Broken it's completely glossed over to make it seem as though Nedra simply suggested to move into their cars together without a second thought about the money. So what's the truth? Both, I guess? I don't know. It's just kinda odd how the same story is written in different ways. Well, not really odd as just jarring. I was expecting at least a passing comment about how Nedra went to confront her boss, but nothing.
Title: Re: Book discussion thread.
Post by: Jessica on November 06, 2015, 07:22:49 AM
In Chasing Down the Dawn, Nedra was a hero and was portrayed as such.  In Never Broken, she's the villain. 

Then, homelessness was a fun little thing she did to devote her time to music and getting discovered - now it's a tragic story where her life was at risk every day and she needed to sing songs to buy carrots.

I don't mean to say Nedra isn't a bellend - she is - but ... bah, I'll wait until the new website comes online to go further. 
Title: Re: Book discussion thread.
Post by: Lily on November 06, 2015, 11:14:25 AM
I have the impression that in CDTD things have been sweetened. But the idea of Nedra as the hero no, I think that was real at the time.
I also have the impression she is even worse than she appears in NB...
Title: Re: Book discussion thread.
Post by: Donna Sue on November 09, 2015, 08:06:14 AM
I have the impression that in CDTD things have been sweetened. But the idea of Nedra as the hero no, I think that was real at the time.
I also have the impression she is even worse than she appears in NB...

I think Jewel had to be a bit careful what she wrote about Nedra in NB. A woman like that likely wouldn't think twice about suing her own daughter.  :indifferent:
Title: Re: Book discussion thread.
Post by: Lily on November 09, 2015, 10:15:18 AM
Yeah, Jewel had to leave some parts out, it was discussed somewhere on the board.
I wonder what we'd think of Nedra if she didn't...  :wtf:
Title: Re: Book discussion thread.
Post by: Ashley on November 15, 2015, 06:21:58 PM
This book blew my mind and I need to read it 100 more times. Too busy with school to fullllllly indulge...... Can't wait for Christmas break! Soon!!

Ps- Nedra is bat shit crazy.
Title: Re: Book discussion thread.
Post by: Nobody on November 15, 2015, 07:21:04 PM
This book blew my mind and I need to read it 100 more times. Too busy with school to fullllllly indulge...... Can't wait for Christmas break! Soon!!

Ps- Nedra is bat shit crazy.

It was extremely well written.  Excited for the new website.  I think, Nedra and Jacque need to be viewed seperately.
Title: Re: Book discussion thread.
Post by: Simon on November 17, 2015, 10:54:50 AM
Am on disc eight (of nine) now, so nearly there - had a long binge this past weekend. Have to say, I'm surprised the craziness with her mom continued for so long into her career. I've never really known too much about it, but figured it all happened relatively early on. But the only times I've ever seen Jewel live were in 2002 and 2003, so it feels really weird to know it was all going on at that time.

As an avid Jackson Browne fan, I was really excited to hear her brief story about their time during Wizard of Oz. I think I once tweeted Jewel asking if she had fun working with him, but she didn't reply (which I wasn't really expecting) - and I've never heard her talk about him at all - so it was cool knowing that they got on and hung out at the hotel one night. Not really a hugely significant part of the book, but surreal knowing that two of my all-time faves crossed paths. And that he wasn't one of the many letchy guys discussed throughout her journey!
Title: Re: Book discussion thread.
Post by: jewelwiki on November 18, 2015, 06:45:28 PM
Looks like the website is partially launched (unless I missed it earlier?)

https://www.jewelneverbroken.com/
Title: Re: Book discussion thread.
Post by: Simon on November 20, 2015, 08:14:47 AM
I skimmed the self-help stuff, too, so we're bad fans together.  I imagine we'll get plenty of it when the jewelneverbroken.com site gets launched.

Whew, am glad it wasn't just me. I finally finished the audiobook a couple of days ago (hence catching up with this thread), and have to admit that, towards the end, I kinda tuned out when I sensed a 'self help' portion coming...

It was pretty full-on having to concentrate so hard and making sure I took everything in - especially at Jewel's frenetic reading pace - so when it was in the self help area, I gave myself a breather and didn't try too hard to take it all in. I mean, I did for the first half of the book, but I found it a little too much by the end.
Title: Re: Book discussion thread.
Post by: Jessica on November 20, 2015, 08:20:00 AM
I'm not into self-help guru stuff.  I have one self-help book I like - Don't Sweat The Small Stuff - and all others are poo.

Well, actually, How To Win Friends and Influence people is p useful.  I like to go through that one real quick before business trips.
Title: Re: Book discussion thread.
Post by: Simon on November 20, 2015, 08:53:55 AM
Take from the poll thread:

The latest chapter I listened to today was describing how the guy at the job wouldn't pay her because she'd turned him down the day before, and he then ignored her the next day. I was fully expecting that Nedra was going to march her back down there and demand she gets the money she rightfully earned, so was quite astounded (and frustrated) when she simply suggest they just live in their cars. Sheesh.

You know, this is one part I found curious. In Chasing Down the Dawn she mentions how Nedra was furious and demanded the money from Jewel's boss, but in Never Broken it's completely glossed over to make it seem as though Nedra simply suggested to move into their cars together without a second thought about the money. So what's the truth? Both, I guess? I don't know. It's just kinda odd how the same story is written in different ways. Well, not really odd as just jarring. I was expecting at least a passing comment about how Nedra went to confront her boss, but nothing.

Hey, thanks for the post on this, and sorry for my delayed reply (I'm clearly a slow listener!)  :)

I never got hold of a copy of CDTD, so it's interesting to hear that the story did play out somewhat less frustratingly - does make me wonder if other stories have been tweaked to make Lenedra look bad though? (Not that they'd have to be, mind you).

Is it worth reading CDTD now I've read the full autobio you think?
Title: Re: Book discussion thread.
Post by: Simon on November 20, 2015, 08:59:33 AM
I'm not into self-help guru stuff.  I have one self-help book I like - Don't Sweat The Small Stuff - and all others are poo.

Well, actually, How To Win Friends and Influence people is p useful.  I like to go through that one real quick before business trips.

I'm a tad partial to a bit of self-help from time to time, and a lot of what Jewel says does make sense and has helped me a lot over the years - but by the end of the book, I thought there was just too much of it, and it began to wash over me.

It also felt a little forced or even 'preachy' at times, as if the book had a hidden agenda. At the start of the book, there'd be a whole long story with a brief moral at the end; but in the later stages, it had swapped around, with a brief story followed by entire chapters of advice.
Title: Re: Book discussion thread.
Post by: Jessica on November 20, 2015, 09:04:17 AM

Is it worth reading CDTD now I've read the full autobio you think?

I thought it was p amusing reading the narrative change so dramatically.  It's not that the details of the stories change so much as the tone.  In one, Nedra's a knight in shining armor and in the other, she's a villain, so that's fairly compelling, but it's p redundant reading (skimming, lol) both if you're in it for the cold hard facts.
Title: Re: Book discussion thread.
Post by: Simon on November 20, 2015, 09:08:20 AM

Is it worth reading CDTD now I've read the full autobio you think?

I thought it was p amusing reading the narrative change so dramatically.  It's not that the details of the stories change so much as the tone.  In one, Nedra's a knight in shining armor and in the other, she's a villain, so that's fairly compelling, but it's p redundant reading (skimming, lol) both if you're in it for the cold hard facts.

Cool, thanks. Thought that it may be a good source for more detailed accounts of stories from earlier in her career, but it sounds so different from NB that I'd probably end up getting quite confused (with my mind just merging both books into one messy grand narrative!)

 :D
Title: Re: Book discussion thread.
Post by: Nobody on November 20, 2015, 09:14:10 AM

Is it worth reading CDTD now I've read the full autobio you think?

I thought it was p amusing reading the narrative change so dramatically.  It's not that the details of the stories change so much as the tone.  In one, Nedra's a knight in shining armor and in the other, she's a villain, so that's fairly compelling, but it's p redundant reading (skimming, lol) both if you're in it for the cold hard facts.

Cool, thanks. Thought that it may be a good source for more detailed accounts of stories from earlier in her career, but it sounds so different from NB that I'd probably end up getting quite confused (with my mind just merging both books into one messy grand narrative!)

 :D

It's pretty impossible to confuse the two.  CDTD, is an hour's read - at most.

I think I'm the only one that didn't mind the end of NB.  The self-help stuff, is built off a lot of spiritual practices and I do get into the new-age, fruit cakey stuff.  So, I guess I saw it as tame compared to a lot of other stuff out there on the market.  It sure is interesting to hear how the general public feels about it, though.

I think I personally (and this opinion) get sad about it because the world is so busy fighting over religion and spirituality is so different. :shrug2:  Probably just little pagan me.
Title: Re: Book discussion thread.
Post by: Simon on November 20, 2015, 09:29:13 AM

Is it worth reading CDTD now I've read the full autobio you think?

I thought it was p amusing reading the narrative change so dramatically.  It's not that the details of the stories change so much as the tone.  In one, Nedra's a knight in shining armor and in the other, she's a villain, so that's fairly compelling, but it's p redundant reading (skimming, lol) both if you're in it for the cold hard facts.

Cool, thanks. Thought that it may be a good source for more detailed accounts of stories from earlier in her career, but it sounds so different from NB that I'd probably end up getting quite confused (with my mind just merging both books into one messy grand narrative!)

 :D

It's pretty impossible to confuse the two.  CDTD, is an hour's read - at most.

I think I'm the only one that didn't mind the end of NB.  The self-help stuff, is built off a lot of spiritual practices and I do get into the new-age, fruit cakey stuff.  So, I guess I saw it as tame compared to a lot of other stuff out there on the market.  It sure is interesting to hear how the general public feels about it, though.

I think I personally (and this opinion) get sad about it because the world is so busy fighting over religion and spirituality is so different. :shrug2:  Probably just little pagan me.

Hey! I'd never claim to be as new-agey as yourself (have enjoyed reading through your posts in this thread about it), but I generally welcome spiritual practices and philosophical thinking, and have even bought some books on these subjects in the past.

I think NB just caught me a little off-guard though. I'm generally receptive to that kind of thinking, but maybe because I wasn't expecting it to such an extent, it felt slightly out of place - or that it simply wasn't what I was hoping to get out of this book. In a different environment, I may really like the exact same material, but I think I really just wanted the cold hard facts here. And it felt like I was a captive audience to the other stuff.

Hate to make too big a deal of it though, because I did really love the book and this is only a minor gripe. Was just reassured that there were a few others who felt the same.
Title: Re: Book discussion thread.
Post by: Nobody on November 20, 2015, 09:38:40 AM
I wasn't being accusatory.  I'm sorry if I came across that way.  I wasn't saying that anyone who didn't like the end of the book wasn't spiritual.  I think everyone has their own path and I have no issue with whatever works as long as it doesn't hurt anyone.  Me, yeah I'm lucky my feet hit the ground some days.  But it doesn't make me any more spiritual than anyone else.  My point was, I'm finding it interesting how people are reacting to the end of the book.  That's all. 
Title: Re: Book discussion thread.
Post by: Simon on November 20, 2015, 09:42:46 AM
I wasn't being accusatory.  I'm sorry if I came across that way.  I wasn't saying that anyone who didn't like the end of the book wasn't spiritual.  I think everyone has their own path and I have no issue with whatever works as long as it doesn't hurt anyone.  Me, yeah I'm lucky my feet hit the ground some days.  But it doesn't make me any more spiritual than anyone else.  My point was, I'm finding it interesting how people are reacting to the end of the book.  That's all.

No, not at all - sorry if my response made it seem like you were being accusatory (I wasn't implying so). We're definitely on the same page, I probably just did a poor job of communicating. Everyone goes home happy!  :hug:
Title: Re: Book discussion thread.
Post by: Nobody on November 20, 2015, 09:49:27 AM
I wasn't being accusatory.  I'm sorry if I came across that way.  I wasn't saying that anyone who didn't like the end of the book wasn't spiritual.  I think everyone has their own path and I have no issue with whatever works as long as it doesn't hurt anyone.  Me, yeah I'm lucky my feet hit the ground some days.  But it doesn't make me any more spiritual than anyone else.  My point was, I'm finding it interesting how people are reacting to the end of the book.  That's all.

No, not at all - sorry if my response made it seem like you were being accusatory (I wasn't implying so). We're definitely on the same page, I probably just did a poor job of communicating. Everyone goes home happy!  :hug:

 :hug: :hug:

I switched to decaf.  I need to go back to high octane.  It's impairing brain function.  I am interested to see how some of the topics go down on the NB board.  Sometimes, it's just not able to be related to unless you know where the philosophies come from and even then...
Title: Re: Book discussion thread.
Post by: Simon on November 20, 2015, 10:04:35 AM
I am interested to see how some of the topics go down on the NB board.

Yep, should make for an interesting read, for sure. Not entirely sure what to expect, but will be keeping a close eye on it. I'm with you on the coffee too! Made the mistake of ditching caffeine myself for a week recently, and was surprisingly lethargic (even by my standards). Tolerance seemed to revert though, so was pretty buzzed when I cracked on again!
Title: Re: Book discussion thread.
Post by: Nobody on November 20, 2015, 10:12:21 AM
I am interested to see how some of the topics go down on the NB board.

Yep, should make for an interesting read, for sure. Not entirely sure what to expect, but will be keeping a close eye on it. I'm with you on the coffee too! Made the mistake of ditching caffeine myself for a week recently, and was surprisingly lethargic (even by my standards). Tolerance seemed to revert though, so was pretty buzzed when I cracked on again!

I had a weird allergic reaction and stopped everything when my entire face blew up.  After a week, I started back on decaf but it really does mess with your brain if you're used to high octane.  I mean, I was screwin up the dog meds and food because I'm not a morning person and couldn't wake up enough.  I'm doing 50/50, but clearly that needs to change.  So much for being a clear vessel!   :rofl2:
Title: Re: Book discussion thread.
Post by: Donna Sue on November 20, 2015, 12:43:58 PM
I'm not into self-help guru stuff.

I'm not really into this stuff either. I'm sure its very beneficial to some, its just a road I've never gone down. Wouldn't be against it if I thought it would help, however. I would def check out Jewel's take on it if I felt a need to.

The minute someone tells me I could turn off a light bulb with my brain, however....I'm outta there.....

 :facepalm:  :tongue2:

Title: Re: Book discussion thread.
Post by: MA_Ashley on November 21, 2015, 12:08:09 AM
What a highly excellent idea, Angel Eyes!

🌷
Title: Re: Book discussion thread.
Post by: Nobody on November 21, 2015, 09:16:53 AM
I'm not into self-help guru stuff.


The minute someone tells me I could turn off a light bulb with my brain, however....I'm outta there.....

 :facepalm:  :tongue2:

 :rofl2: :thumbup:
Title: Re: Book discussion thread.
Post by: Sandy on November 25, 2015, 06:48:55 PM
Gotta admit though, my eyes kind of glazed over and I skimmed through some of the self-help stuff at the end. Just the facts for me.

Does that make me a bad fan? :fallen:


Nope! Myra and I just talked about this when we met up in NY last week. I've been to therapy. I'm all good. Thanks anyway, Jewel.
Title: Re: Book discussion thread.
Post by: Matt on November 26, 2015, 04:23:00 AM
I'm up to the end now and I'm kinda glazing over with all the self help stuff too.

I'm still not sure I understand how she can have so much affection for Jacque after all the Zarathustra stuff. Didn't Jacque come into the picture because of her mother?

How very bizarre all this stuff with her mum and the brainwashing thing.
Title: Re: Book discussion thread.
Post by: Donna Sue on November 26, 2015, 08:26:28 AM
I'm still not sure I understand how she can have so much affection for Jacque after all the Zarathustra stuff. Didn't Jacque come into the picture because of her mother?

I have wondered this numerous times. She wrote 2 beautiful, heart-wrenching songs about this woman. I can't believe after everything she's gone through she would feel the same way about Jacque as she did when she thought Nedra was all that and a bag of chips.  :shrug2:
Title: Re: Book discussion thread.
Post by: Sandy on November 27, 2015, 10:21:04 AM
So, Nedra bat not have been all Jewel needed in a mother, but I can't condone cyber bullying. I feel like it's the antithesis of EDA-dom. Granted I haven't even gotten 100 pages into the book, but still...Jewel has moved on, there's no need for us to bad mouth her further. ☺


AGREED!


Title: Re: Book discussion thread.
Post by: MA_Ashley on November 27, 2015, 11:36:35 AM
Good heavens, what book are you discussing?
Title: Re: Book discussion thread.
Post by: MA_Ashley on November 27, 2015, 11:55:58 AM
BTW, "A Night Without Armor" is a GREAT book. You can read it quickly, or you can spend an hour on one poem. Something to read again and again. 🌷
Title: Re: Book discussion thread.
Post by: Nobody on November 27, 2015, 03:36:43 PM
Good heavens, what book are you discussing?

Uh, Never Broken.
Title: Re: Book discussion thread.
Post by: Fernando on August 14, 2016, 07:04:25 PM
So... American Airlines sucks!!! My 6 hour flight took 18 hours because they had a mechanical failure or a conniption or something (I've sworn to only fly Virgin American direct flights from now on). I had my Kindle with me with no decent cell phone service and it had few of the books I bought on it (despite a mostly empty flash chip!?!). But, Jewel's book was on it. So, I finally finished it/re-read it.

The whole book just made me really sad. Nedra reminded me so much of my dad. (I feel kind of bad for her, too, though.) Plus, it was such a total shock to be someone that followed her career and to have listened to interviews and read her writings and then to hear about how different things were from what she presented. Wow!

BTW, I don't think I can like Violet Eyes as much as I did, now.
Title: Re: Book discussion thread.
Post by: Donna Sue on August 15, 2016, 07:45:56 AM
it was such a total shock to be someone that followed her career and to have listened to interviews and read her writings and then to hear about how different things were from what she presented. Wow!

BTW, I don't think I can like Violet Eyes as much as I did, now.

Agree 100%. I look at Jewel a bit differently now since I read NB. People always look at an attractive, talented singer and think they have it all. .. but it must have been so hard for her. I can't believe how awesome she is after having gone through everything she did.

Sorry about your flight, Code.  ;)